Basic Human Connections

Counselling, Midland Counsellors, Connections, Perth Counsellors

As a counsellor, I have the privilege of sitting with individuals facing challenges and obstacles in life. By facilitating and guiding clients through some of their toughest times, I gain a deep understanding of the suffering and pain people endure. These shared experiences provide insights for me as a counsellor. I am grateful for these moments, as they allow me to grow both professionally and personally.

The most rewarding aspect of being a counsellor is the unique connection that can occur between two individuals who might not otherwise meet. This social interaction is fundamental to human nature. We are meant to have social contact to reach our full potential. Human beings have an intrinsic need to interact with others, as evidenced by the use of solitary confinement as a punishment in prisons, highlighting the importance of social contact for humans and the severe impact of its absence.

In today's world, we may find ourselves isolated not only from family, friends, and society, but also from ourselves. This can be due to marital breakdowns, moving for job relocations, working online, and certain Covid restrictions. Additionally, those dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other mental health issues might further isolate themselves, either to avoid burdening loved ones, due to a lack of support, or for other reasons.

Have I mentioned that poor mental health is a global epidemic? Trauma and life events can create barriers between us and others, and even our own emotions. Counselling offers a way to connect with your own feelings, no matter how painful, and with other people.